Discussion about this post

User's avatar
Alex's avatar

I agree with this, but: I'm in a situation where I give and give to family and friends, helping them physically, financially and emotionally. I genuinely try to help them. I try to always stay kind even when I am pretty much at the end of my own tether and am always mindful that my actions and words do not hurt, even unintentionally. All the while trying to keep the best outcome for all of us in my mind. So on the surface I am doing what you described, but the only thing I have manifested until now is more problems. One is solved, another pops up. This has been going in since I was a young child, and is exactly the reason I turned to non-duality and manifesting in the first place. It has helped me a lot to stay upright, but the rest stays the same.

Believe me I know this sounds like I am a martyr who does not know how to set boundaries and I am very aware that I create this somehow myself.

The only thing I want to manifest right now is happy independent people around me and some nice me-time. But I keep releasing and releasing, trying to find this underlying belief that creates this, but there is an absolute blind spot there.

Any suggestions are welcome.

P.s. I love your posts, they're insightful and brilliantly written. But this one really got to me, as it is exactly what I am almost tearing my hair out about.

Expand full comment
M3089's avatar

Beautiful, once again. :)

Thank you, my friend!

May I request you to share your views on revision as propagated by Neville. I may be wrong, but I find many parallels between your teachings and the revision 'technique'. It would be amazing to know what you think about it, and how you'd incorporate revision to 'erase' the past, so to speak. :)

Thank you so much once again, my friend. Love to you.

Expand full comment
12 more comments...

No posts